"All Boy" is about a family, mother, father, and a precocious eleven-year old son, Harold, and housekeeper, Mrs. Norman, in which the father desires to come "out of the closet" and Harold wants to return to the closet in which Mrs. Norman put him while she watched her soap operas. The structure of this story is its strength, I think.
"All Boy" was first published in the New England Review and subsequently in The Best American Short Stories, 2010.
I like the story. No one is different at the end of the story, except that the father has admitted that he is gay and moves out. We see a family disintegrate which was already in trouble because Mr. Lundstrom, a banker, married a woman, which was against his nature. The story takes place in 1976 which is only referred to once concerning a Halloween party. I find Mr. Lundstrom particularly brave and honest given the time frame.
My favorite sentence about Harold: "He did not feel that he was being dishonest because he cared deeply about grammar and would have gone on using 'may' even without such incentives." It doesn't sound as funny isolated here but in the context of the story, it's hilarious and great.
Ostlund's web page
Ostlund reads "All Boy" on Vimeo
NPR, Richard Russo talks about "All Boy"
blog about Lori Ostlund
Short Review, Q&A with Ostlund